Crosses Wen Ding: Before the wedding a month, caret shaped clamped the male and female both sides time, settles the date, the male family brought along "three domestic animals liquors ritual" to the bride's family.
Oversized ritual: The male family selects decides the auspicious day auspicious day, brings along the cash as a present and the ritual cake, the coconut tree, the tea, the betel nut, the delicacies from the sea, three domestic animals (including chicken two pair, goose two pair, pig spleen two), the husked lotus, the sesame seed, the lily, the red jujube, the longan does, 糯米粉, 片糖, wine, the Longfeng bracelet pair, marriage ring and golden chain and so on, delivers the bride's family. After the bride's family receives the big ritual, makes a return gift part for the male family, this calls "回礼". Usually is the upper row goods one half or certain, in addition the lotus root pair, the sweet potato pair, the pomegranate pair, the four seasons orange pair, the handkerchief, son-in-law's western-style clothing, the leather belt, the ritual, the silver package, the paper fan pair, the money pouch two pairs, on writes "五代同堂, hundred sub- thousand grandsons".
Trousseau: The ancient times, the female needs makes the trousseau a big orange and a small orange to the male family, in puts 72 clothes, with the Japanese cypress, the husked lotus, the longan, and the money pouch is accompanying; Also has "the butterfly dual flight" ~ comparatively to cut; "Fertile farmland ten thousand area units" ~ foot, bed and so in Longfeng quilt, pillow, bed sheet thing; Slipper two pair, night clothes and underpants each two sets; 子孙桶 (spittoon), in puts the red egg pair, 片糖 two, ten red chopsticks, the ginger two pieces, also takes an umbrella.
Above: Above ceremony Yu Dahun the lunar new year's day morning hold, must select the time. The groom's family must start (approximately a hour difference) compared to the bride's side early half time, and "the good luck husband's mother" holds by "the good luck man" for male and female both sides each oneself in. Male and female both sides want to put on the night clothes, the bride's side are wanting to see the moonlight in the window, opens the window to carry on. So-called "the good luck man" and "the good luck husband's mother" is in the male bride's family's elder, selects the parents children to be in good health, marital harmoniousness. Formerly, after above the bride's side then did not permit to fall to the ground takes a walk, therefore on time decorated sedan chair had to carry by the big aunt elder sister. Above when "the good luck man", "the good luck husband's mother" can comb while said that, "As soon as combs, combs the tail; Two combs, white hair Qi Mei; Three combs, combs the descendant everywhere ".
Lunar new year's day leaves the gate: Turns on the red umbrella, the representative opens to disperse the leaf. Scatters the red bean mung bean and Mi Yusan goes against with the vehicle roof, with exorcises evil spirits.
Three dynasties return home: Below a pair of new person generation prepares the goods to return the bride's family: Golden pig two, a liquor pot, chicken pair, west cake two box, fresh fruit two, surface two box, pig tripe, pork two catties. The bride's family must keep the daughter and the son-in-law eats the food. After returns home the bride's family as usual 回礼, including west cake, bamboo sugar cane, chicken young, greens, celery, pig and pig tail. Because the time is progressive, all conform to simplicity, above various rituals may the money pouch replace, replace the pork, says the pork gold. West replaces the cake, also was west the gold bar.
Taboo: The pregnant woman and 带孝 all may not witness the new person leaves the gate and gets married, cannot move new person's clothing and new home all goods. If "crawls the head" the marriage new person, must pass through pants crotch of in under his/her the unmarried elder brother only then may leave the gate.
